Porn and Masturbation vs. Fucking Other People

What about chronic porn watching and masturbation? It’s all lumped in there in the pot of “sex addiction” from at least the sex addicts. The Player says, “We are all there for the same reason.” I feel strongly that while I am positive porn and masturbation can be destructive to a marriage with a partner who completely shuts themselves off from their spouse and intimacy. I feel that chronic betrayals of fucking other people or working continuously trying to fuck people or continuously getting some ego stroking by various empty, sad, pathetic women who easily spread their legs open. I know that’s bad too. I do however, feel like emotional and especially physical affairs take on an entirely different dimension with the “sex addict” in how they impact a marriage another human.

The Player courted other women for the entirety of our marriage to fill a void in himself.

The Player disregarded me for two decades by collecting women and whores who met the needs for his agenda of Self.

The Player had an enormous amount of regard for himself.

The Player fucked other people for two decades.

The Player somehow hung onto the whores even when he stopped fucking them. They remained devoted to him.

The Player was systematic in making sure he always had a fuck interest, someone to at least fantasize about if not go after.

The Player had multiple emotional and physical affairs over 20 years because he only thought about himself.

I am fairly sure I’d be able to work through porn and masturbation addiction because it does feel solitary to me (exploitation not withstanding). The fact that his “addiction” involves other people it seems, I don’t know, more risky for “slips” and “relapses.”

The differences are discussed here:

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